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For the Right to Be Different

Love and freedom encounter another peculiar barrier, which is cultural conditioning. For the record, I’ve been very clear in stating that I don’t believe that external pressure is as strong as most people do; they speak of society and its impositions as if it were a boogeyman straight out of our childhood. Nevertheless, human groups… Continue lendo »

Love is love, sex is sex

We are told that sex and love are part of the same instinct; I disagree. Love is a pleasant sensation of comfort we feel when we’re close to a special person. It’s what a child feels on their mother’s lap, everyone’s first object of love. The pain that comes from the vulnerability and incompleteness we… Continue lendo »

Trust in Each Other is Essential to a Mature Relationship

– Love implies dependence, being vulnerable. So, loving someone we don’t trust is being reckless with ourselves. Very few couples live well together and have a relationship conducive to emotional and intellectual growth. But exactly because some couples do live happily together, we should do our best to be a part of this exclusive club.

The Plenitude of a Romantic Marriage

Theoretically, lastingly romantic marriages should be more common than those based on an exuberant sex life. But it’s not how it goes. It doesn’t mean that sexually satisfying relationships are that frequent, but very few couples get to experience a loving relationship that last decades, one that fills hearts with joy and eyes, with tears… Continue lendo »

On Being Alone…

This new millennium hasn’t just brought technological advances; romantic relationships have also gone through a deep transformation, and revolutionized the concept of love. What people want these days is a relationship that fits into our times, in which there is individuality, respect, joy and pleasure in each other’s company. People in relationships no longer depend… Continue lendo »

When Mother and Child Don’t Love Each Other

While still in-utero, our brain develops in an environment filled with comfort, peace and harmony. We are living in paradise—and birth means being expelled. From them on, we experience what are probably the worst days of our life: we are cold, hungry and thirsty and we feel vulnerable and in absolutely despair when our mothers… Continue lendo »